Convince reluctant wife into dating men

Ok, so I know many of the people reading this are going to judge me and HATE me and I'm sorry for offending you, but I am only on here to look for guidance and advice.I am a 40 year-old married white male who has been married to my wife for 12 years (together for 16) and have always been faithful to her but circumstances have forced me to look for a woman on the side. When I first met my wife, she had a voracious appetite for sex and since my drive was also strong we had an amazing sex life right from the beginning of our relationship.But it seemed that as soon as I got on board, he stepped off the boat. He’s admitted to being afraid that I am going to turn out like his ex.He has been distant, doesn’t chat as much, doesn’t come around as much. He wants to go out and do things with his friends and things he enjoys, and he thinks I will be upset about it.Over the course of our marriage, I've seen her interest in sex decline gradually to the point where she doesn't even have an interest anymore.I treat her very well, provide most of the financial responsibility of our household, and make sure that I continue to take her out on dates, buy small gifts for her, bring her flowers, etc.My wife still tells me she finds me physically attractive and I exercise regularly to keep fit and stay attractive to her so I know that my appearance isn't the issue.We've had many discussions about this subject and my wife knows how frustrated I have become but she tells me she just no longer has the interest in sex that she once had.

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Your stubborn person could be the person who sits next to you at work or your own father. Ask yourself, is this the best time to present my case? You are now calmer, smarter and stronger than you were before.

Once you learn how to work with him (not against him), you will be shocked to discover how strong, smart and clever you are. Sounds like a lot of work but when you practice these tips, it will become natural.

If you have a stubborn person in your life, consider yourself lucky. If you’re talking to a female, before you talk, check out her mood stats. A stubborn person suffers from temporary hearing loss. An opposing opinion should be delivered in small portions. See through it, identify it, acknowledge it (silently in your mind), and take control of how handle the situation.

Stubborn people can be annoying, stressful and drive you crazy. Is she stressed out and annoyed or smiley and calm? Without putting him down, try to see his point of view and then respectfully (no head-butting allowed) show him his opinion is important, then gently ask him to respect your opposing opinion. It feels like you are walking on eggshells, whenever you take a step, you can hear the crackling under your feet. Once you master these skills, you are the king (or queen) of the conversation.


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